Showing posts with label fun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fun. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Strange Toys


My siblings and I all loved to go visit grandma during the summer months, but the drive always seemed to take so long to get to my grandma’s small house up on West Lake.  Sitting on the car's sticky vinyl seats was uncomfortable at best, and sitting still was hard.  Swinging our legs was always a distraction and it was so hard.  But the ride was always worth it because of the destination, our grandmother's house on the lake.  It always meant swimming in those hot summer months, but for me, it meant so much more.

To my sisters being at grandma’s and away from their friends was b-o-r-i-n-g, but I felt it was an exciting escape, especially if my cousin Gail was there, too. 

From the beginning Gail was more like my big sister and we two spent hours together creating an imagined world that was filled with lions, bears, and even snakes when we went exploring through grandma’s closet or attic together.  The closet was where the buckskin clothing hung, but also where our stories began. At lunch downstairs at the dinner table it could be lie any typical family meal.  But when my Grandma began her stories it became a magical place.  In our eyes she was one of the best storytellers and would usually begin telling tales as we all began to eat, or even sometimes just when we all had our mouths full of food!  From wild animal stories to those of the native Americans who traveled with her father's three ringed circus we were always thrilled with the scary and fun stories she shared with us over dinner.

One of our favorite stories was about the various, “toys,” that were an everyday part of grandma’s life.  From the dolls the Native Americans made her, to the old tooth-less lion there was strange and always a fun to scratch and enjoy like some huge stuffed animal she had much to enjoy in her free time in the Fowler Brothers Circus.

One of her favorite toys came every year when the circus was in Alabama during the winter months.  The trucks that carried the tents, costumes and of course the performers usually stayed in the small roadside cottages that huddled along the highways all over the coastal areas of the state.  Every year they would stop along the roads by swamps or bayous and shop at local fish stands for food, but also something more.  They would get supplies, but also look for eggs.  But not just any eggs they were searching for alligator eggs.  Great-Grandpa Fletcher would bargain for alligator eggs from the local fisherman to hatch for the circus.   When they arrived at the motels they’d hide the eggs in the wood boxes that were always near a fireplace to keep them warm.  Wrapped in old blankets and turned often to get uniformly warmth these eggs always seemed to hatch out at the most inopportune moment.  Hiding them from motel proprietors was always a challenge because insisted that there be no animals in the rooms.   Most of the time they insisted on compliance, but with a circus full of animals it was always hard since they were often the only pets that grandma and her sister ever had.

One year as the baby alligators began hatching out and crying like alligator babies do for their mama the landlady just happened to be at the cabin door to collect the monthly rent.  She was suddenly startled by what must have seemed to be high pitched screams and took off out the door screaming.  She was sure there was something terrible there that was going to get her!”  Needless to say that was the last time they spent the winter in that particular motel.

The best part of having baby gators in the circus was of course the fact that for at least two weeks to four weeks these slimy creatures would fit perfectly into the small buckskin doll clothes that the Native Americans in the circus troop had made over the winter months for the homemade dolls the two sisters had for play things.

Wrapped in buckskin and feathers those small alligator dolls were held close as if they were babies as the two girls walked among the wagons and trucks that held the families of the clowns, aerialists, and of course the caged animals in the field behind the motel.  As we listened to the stories the image of those wriggling baby alligators dressed in buckskin was often more than we girls could handle and we often began squealing “e-u-w-w-w-w!” as grammy would tell us about how very cold those gators felt with their constantly flicking tails and strong legs! 

Today when we talk about those stories we still laugh and but often wonder too. We think about what it might have been like for us to walk among the tents and trucks.  What would it have been like if we’d been the girls growing up so long ago in grandma's home, the Fowler Brothers Circus.


Thursday, March 3, 2011

A Vacation of a Lifetime!

Hi, all!  I am going to try to take this blog to a whole different level beginning on the 31st of March 2011.  What happens then?  Well, I'm on to a trip with my granddaughter, Becca out of the country and on to fun places!

Some of you know my destinations, and the rest will discover them as we do.  I will be taking a laptop to record my days (I'll still have my written journal during the days so as not to miss anything and I'm taking a great camera to capture every moment I can!!  We will be gone until the 11th of course given 2 full days for travel, which should give you some hints, so stay tuned!

Sunday, June 15, 2008

The Play's the Thing...

The Tony Awards are on tonight. I am a real lover of the theatre, and though I've never seen a Broadway play or musical, but I have seen many locally created productions. I love what theatre can do to take you away on a trip of the imagination, or teach real truths of our world and the people who surround us.

I have to admit that one of my favorite musicals of all time is nominated for a Tony. South Pacific is one of those timeless musicals that reminds us about how painful it is when discrimination and intolerance is a real part of every day life.

But the best part of theatre for me is it stimulates thought and conversation that can change a person's point of view, or maybe even a community's.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Life Changes

What is a it like to discover who you are and where you belong in the world...at 57 years old? It's fun, a daily discovery, and totally frightening!!! After many years of living in the shadow of an abusive parent and then spending years having that voice in my head tell me over and over again how stupid I was and being afraid of the results of that in my relationships - in the world that surrounded me, and sometimes closed in on me.

Well, now I am finding my way out of that maze having fun standing up for who I am and feeling totally alive for the first time. Since then I have made discoveries about myself that were both exciting, and truly terrifying at the same time. A scary part of the "new" me came when I saw my anger with people's negativity, as well as those who reject people - for any reason.

So I decided that I needed a mission statement - something to help me focus my energies with those feelings. My statement is simple, and yet it is the focus of my every day life today and from now on..."Kindness is the highest form of intelligence, and I need to practice it with everyone - including me, everyday for the rest of my life." I even have to remember in my zeal for kindness that I need to consider that kindness means caring about other people's feelings and not getting fanatical to the point of being pushy or angry at the person who doesn't see things my way.

I'm learning, and often see the changes but sometimes I feel like I've lost so much over the years. I have to admit that I like being where I am at this time in my life and life is a constant discovery of who I really am and how I can change my world even at my age!!!